The development of skills can all to easily become over-shadowed by the feedback process. Why not aim for a balanced approach in which feedback and the development of skills (eg. good listening skills; constructive ways of handling conflict) are both valued?
Move forward when both partners can confidently answer: Yes. We are ready to move ahead.
We have provided some thoughts to consider:
- What kind of day did you have?
- Have your emotions been fairly neutral?
- Have you experienced any high levels of sadness, anger, or joy?
We recommend discussing your relationship on days where your emotions have been calm.
If you decide you are ready to move forward with reviewing your relationship and working through various issues —that’s awesome.
If you decide you need to make some adjustments before discussing – that’s good too! The goal is to get talking to your partner, even if that conversation doesn’t happen right away.
PREPARE/ENRICH has several resources to help you unpack and mine the assessment results around money.
Source: DISCUSSION GUIDE FOR COUPLES, PREPARE/ENRICH 2017
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